101th Post: Updates and Easter Sunday



Summer lovin' ;)



My classes are almost over, so I might have time to do some more blogging.  I'll try my best although I really plan on picking up all the activities I had to drop like walking and applying to teacher certification programs.

All and all, I'm pretty happy.

I've added some pictures.  

Busy, busy, busy.

C'est la vie.



My oh so cute younger almost twin sister (we're 8 years apart), at Dave& Buster's...she won 1000 tickets on the Wheel of Fortune. Cute and what a fun Saturday!





Hung with my mom on Easter Sunday.  We barbequed and sweated to the death playing Michael Jackson:The Experience on Wii.! She loves that Diamond (our revered pet dog lol)



Teasing my dad while he takes a pic of my sister driving...I wish every day could be this fun...

I Apologize...

I've been so busy.

I will write as much as I can but I can't promise that will be often.

'Tis life...

Catch me if you can!

Coming Soon: Spring Fashion Finds Pt. 2

Write Byte: The Art of the Argument

Confrontation is an art form that I have yet to master.

To me, matters of the heart were never easy.

Eloquence and anger never mixed to me, and I'm not a woman of words.

If anger could be sent in an email, or written on a postcard, our delicately folded in a letter with the distinct shades smeared from my lips upon it, than I'd be the poet laureate of all confrontation.

Debaters would idolize me. Lawyers would become hypnotized with my negotiations, and all eyes would gaze as I speak.

All That I Can Say...

Have you ever wanted or thought of something to say that seemed so important and it suddenly became meaningless?

Like talking to a long lost friend or closure with an ex...but honestly, what's really the point?

(By the way...as an aside...have you ever thought you could hear a stare?...This man just looked at me mad confused and appalled. Seriously...you can bite me!)

I think it helps you believe you've diminished your part in the experience...

Like explaining your realizations makes something better about the situation.

But would you dig a knife into an old wound?

As much as I've wanted to rationalize things for the person previously affected, the more I've realized that that's one of the dumbest thoughts I've ever had.

Like why turn around and act like saying something changes everything?
Instead it gives the person their power back.

And isn't the opposite why you let that relationship go in the first place?

All an explanation does is erase everything you've done to let things go.

So if you ever have that stray thought, and feel regret, just remember that you may be better without them.

And on the rare occasion you're not, think about it long and hard before you do something else you regret...by starting a relationship that ended like it already was supposed to.